10yo ds was delighted today, because at last his hair is just long enough to be gathered in a scrunchy.
So he had his hair gathered back and was wearing a colourful, gender-neutral jumper, and was playing with 10yo and 12yo neighbour children when I overheard them asking him if he was trans. Not nastily at all, just puzzled.
Ds "What do you mean?"
NCh "Are you a girl in a boy's body?"
Ds laughs.
NCh "But you've got long hair, and you often wear girly clothes, and now you've got a ponytail."
Ds "Boys can have ponytails. What you wear doesn't change who you are. I'm a boy and I like long hair and I like bright colours."
NCh "Don't you care if people think you're a girl?"
Ds shrugs. "It's silly if people mix up what you wear with what you are. It's not like my clothes are a uniform, or something."
Cue debate about gender, sex and behaviour. Clearly all three children have heard something about trans issues, but don't really understand. Ds, though, is at least clear that he doesn't have to restrict himself to gender-norms.
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PROUD of ds's response to trans nonsense!
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