Couldn't think of a good way to ask what I wanted to know, so the title probably doesn't sum up my question very well.
Atm, my boys (7 and 10) are having a week with no tv after deliberatley setting the burglar alrm off on Sunday morning to get me up when they know that I lie in until 8.45. Other 'punishments' are bringing bedtimes forward by 15 minutes, usually use this when getting ready in the morning, ie ' if your teeth aren't clean in 2 minutes you will go to bed 15 minutes earlier' This can lead to very early bedtimes on a particularly bad morning!
So, how far ahead can you go with this system? Or what do you do with children of a similar age? If they are little sh**ts again sometime this week and tv gets banned for another week and then they are horrid again and so on, I could end up banning tv till they are married! Neither has a tv in his room.
I do find it very hard to control them - the polite phrase is 'full of life' .Which means that they are the children you want to avoid if you go somewhere public! And other than giving in to all my basest instincts and clobbering them, I go with the deprivations theme.
no matter how much I try to explain the results of their actions in a calm and reasoned manner they still misbehave so much. A recent example being ' if you throw toys out of an upstairs window, they will break , you won't get replacements and as its dark what would you do if they land on the cat and kill her'?
10 minutes later, more beyblades being launched out of the window, result no beyblades!
How do people get well behaved boys?
aaarrgghhhhh!!!
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how far ahead would you withhold 'treats' as a punishment?
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lilibet · 27/01/2004 17:14
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