me and dh are having a dreadful time with ds and its been going on for ages. ds is 3.5 and answers back all the time, shouts no i won't, and just seems to take every waking moment as an opportunity to drive me and dh crazy. he wasn't like this til about 2 months ago- but now he is constantly at us.
for example , he will shout get me cornflakes and i say, ask nicely " mummy, please may I.." and he shouts NO, RIGHT NOW. iF i ask him to wait for any reason, he goes berserk, shouting "no, you wait, you skunk" and don;t speak to me like that and is really quite impossible. When I say. ok, in the corner/ sit at the table quietly and think how rude you are, this sparks more abusive shouting from him.
dh either explodes with don;t speak to mummy like that or ignores it. he is working 16 hours a day so contact is short and dh is so tired - it does seem that ds is worse when dh is there. another issue for us.
we have a dd who is 17 months and ds is v nice with her and always has been, i donlt see why suddenly he would feel the need to behave like this.
i cry a lot as i must be doing something wrong, i often end up shouting at ds as the constant back chat as my mum says drives me crazy.
I ask ds why he is like this and he says he doesn;t know, he seems to be influenced a bit by unruly kids at nursery as he talks of their behavior and then how they are punished, ut he gets stickers at nursery for his good behaviour and his teacher says he is great at school.
sorry about the long thread but i don;t know what to do. nothing works or changes. any advice welcome...
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blueberrysorbet · 27/11/2010 11:39
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