Hi
Sorry if this comes across as being blunt
In a lesbian relationship we have one child already. I'm 29 weeks pregnant and OH is 14 weeks pregnant through IVF.
I never ever thought it was a good idea from the start, for us both to be pregnant at the same time but she was adamant we could cope.
She's been trying for well over 2 years to get pregnant, had a blighted ovum in Jan 15.
So anyway, she had IVF in August and the first few weeks were bloody stressful because she kept bleeding on and off until 12 weeks, and we thought so many times she was losing it.
About 10 weeks she started feeling very nauseous and 11 weeks started being sick quite badly and has been diagnosed with HG after a hospital stay and drip she's on meds now.
What I'm really worried about is she says daily she wishes she wasn't pregnant, she feels nothing towards it, hopes she has a miscarriage, considering abortion, and I'm sick of hearing it.
She says she's happy about MY pregnancy , we are having a little girl, but doesn't want hers.
I can't help but feel anger and disappointment towards her. It's not like this happened by accident.
And the child might not be anything to do with me biologically but I already have feelings towards it, as I do towards my own.
Does this sound like depression or that she's just .... I don't know, not maternal. I don't understand it, I don't feel like I can give her sympathy when she's saying she doesn't care if she has a MC.
Please help.
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Chemistria · 29/10/2016 11:03
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