Am 35 weeks pregnant with first child, been going to NCT classes which have been nice in terms of general info about labour, painkillers, that sort of thing, and have met some nice people who I hope to keep in contact with (which was the main reason for going, TBH).
Antenatal care in my area consists of seeing community midwives who don't seem to really know anything much concrete about what happens at the hospital I'm booked into when you go into labour. I have asked a few direct questions and the predominant answer is 'oooh, I don't really know, it depends...'
Hospital does antenatal classes but a combination of work, building work at home, and general slackness means that I have left it too late to get a place on these. There is a private option which is run by a midwife (as opposed to an NCT person), but this is frankly rather expensive and I'm not sure I'll learn much more than I already know, particularly in terms of what actually happens at my hospital (which is what I'd really want to know about).
I'm tempted to simply say 'sod it' and muddle through, as it doesn't seem likely I can get any particularly concrete information about what happens at my hospital now. I kind of think the private option is a bit unnecessary as I actually work with a load of doctors and midwives anyway (totally different geographical area, however) in a research capacity- so at least can get more 'clinical' information fairly easily.
One thing that perturbs me a bit is the knowledge that I have not the slightest idea how to start looking after a baby in anything other than the vaguest terms. My mum has volunteered to help, though, so hopefully I should be OK, right??
How much can you learn about looking after a baby on a Saturday, anyway?
Am I being totally unrealistic???
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silverten · 04/11/2009 15:34
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