Name changed as don't want to be outed!
My wonderful best friend's DH had an affair last year and she found out and retreated to my house to stay for a couple of nights with her DC whilst she decided what to do. I was diplomatic in my advice to her in that I told her it was her marriage and to do what she felt was right. She decided to make their marriage work and thankfully, they have got over the worst of it.
Since then I have received a bit of a bad vibe from her DH, either because I sent him a text when she arrived in hysterics at our house telling him he was a prize twat or because he doesn't like the fact that I know his private business (no-one else knows bar me).
My friend and I went out for a night out a couple of weeks ago, I haven't been out for 3 years because I have had 2 DC close together, he decides to ruin it by turning up
at 12pm and standing in the bar waiting to give us a lift home. He blatantly didn't speak to me and I was too pissed to care!
This week our DC's had a joint birthday party, he was there and didn't once acknowledge my presence.
It has got to the point where I am not sure what to do as it is starting to take its toll on our lovely friendship but my friend is a little bit timid and I think she is too frightened to say anything to him.
I am not sure whether I should:
(a) grin and bear it;
(b) speak directly to her DH or;
(c) speak to my friend and let her know how deeply it is upsetting me.
I feel like I am paying the price for her confiding in me and he doesn't want to be reminded that I know his personal business. Believe me when I say, it is not because he is embarrassed, he is a cocky bastard.
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devilindisguise · 30/10/2009 15:05
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