So DC4 is 1 next week. We have had a turbulent year in which we have been living day to day and managing debts by the skin of our teeth, have moved the DCs school and seen the household income slip to 25% of what it used to be. As a consequence Dh has barely taken any of his holiday and has 10 days left, most of which he will not take. DC1 & 2 (7 & 6) have inset days on Monday and Tuesday of next week and DC4 is one on Tuesday. Dh is having those days off. I have been planning a lovely couple of days outdoors and DC4s birthday tea for my dcs and cousins (only two of them) but one is at school that day and so leaves us free until 3.45pm.
Dh has, without asking, invited his DPs for the day. I loathe them with a passion, they are very unlike me and very very loud.
It will completely ruin my day but the older dcs will love it and PILs will frighten dc4 because they are very much in his face. FIL also likes to repeatedly do 'spitty' kisses on the dcs mouths which makes me want to throw up.
So AIBU because I'd rather they didn't come or is DH being unreasonable for ruining my our plans and inviting them?
They live too far for a fleeting visit.
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AIBU?
*PIL*s and DC4 first birthday......me or DH, you decide.
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posieparksherbroom · 27/10/2009 14:00
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