This is really getting my goat at the moment. A few weeks ago DH says to me "have you talked to SIL about BILs birthday yet?"
"Er no, actually he's your brother not mine..." He got all huffy with me and accused me of being moody.
A few days later I sent him a text to remind him to get a card and pressie for his DB which he apparently did. Then on the day itself got a sniffy text from SIL asking if I had remembered BIL birthday !!!!
"NO HE'S NOT MY BLOODY BROTHER! ASK DH!!!!" (Well I didn't send the text but that was what I was thinking.)
Now it's MILs birthday next Monday and he has done nothing to organise a present. He just seems to expect me to do it. He says he hasn't got time (and he has got a busy job and works long hours) but he went to the West End to buy DVDs last week after work and spends all weekend on his computer, goes to the football etc. so makes time for things he really wants to do.
It's the same with all the Christmas shopping too. He does nothing.
So now I have to go off round the shops and find something for the old trout dear or risk more snotty comments from his family that I have forgotten.
AIBU to buy her a present and not put his name on it?
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To expect DH to sort out his own family's presents?
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BirthdayCard · 27/10/2009 08:55
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