It's an old, old story...Basically, I have one DD, almost a year old. DP and I both have a sister each with kids of their own. Both our Mums are with partners. We have agreed to see my Mum before Christmas for a couple of days, and DP's Mum after Christmas for a couple of days, in both cases going to stay. My Mum is happy with this. DP's Mum isn't and has got the hump, and thinks we should invite her and her yucky husband down for Christmas Day. I am not going to because
- we are having my FIL from my first marriage over for Christmas lunch (I am widowed). He is completely on his own and lives locally, unlike my Mum or DP's.
- I'd quite like to spend Christmas Eve and Day in my own house and not haring up and down the motorway.
- It spreads things out a bit.
DP and his Ma think I am being selfish. My own Mum thinks I am being sensible. Who is right?