I have a male friend who is definitely a bit quirky. However, he has often been there for me when I really needed a friend and has tried to make me feel better as I have recently had quite a few phases of being unwell. A while back, I had a guy on my facebook list who I had known since school. He started harassing me and I blocked him and we no longer speak. This man was awful and assaulted me on a few occasions.
The aforementioned friend knew all about the harasser because he used to keep writing on my wall, etc. The other day, however 'friend' started messaging men on my facebook list because he was 'bored' and he also decided to message the person I blocked. Since then he has been going on about how nice harasser is and making me feel paranoid by hinting that he has been discussing me.
Why would a friend do this? Even as I am typing this I am aware of how totally bonkers it sounds!!!! It is beyond childish, surely?
I sent him an email saying I am angry about it and that real friends do not try to f*ck with each others heads. There is no sign of an apology.
AIBU to bin this friendship now, considering he has been a good friend in other ways?
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electra · 21/10/2009 10:38
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