It is hard to describe
I have known this RL friend since we were 4, but since I moved back into the area we rarely meet up.
I text and text to try to make arrangements and they fall through every time.
To the point that I thought, sod it, she can contact me, when she has time.
9 months later......
She text to say we should meet up. I didn't reply immediately cos I was just not sure I wanted to re-enter the whole thing.
Next day, she sends her DH to speak to my sis (they work in same office) to check she has the right number.
he says maybe I hadn't replied cos I didn't want to know (quite succinct I thought) but, come on, 24hrs is a bit quick to make that kind of assumption?He told sis it was cos she wants to invite me out to celebrate her 30th, a year late (pregnant last year).
So now I am thinking, I don't really want to meet up, only for it to be months and months of my putting myself out there before we meet again. It makes me feel like I appear needy and desperate, where I am not.
I am not sure I want to go out with her, reckon I am just making up the numbers so it is a bigger gang. She has been out plenty and has only once asked me out with her in 6 years!
I just feel it is a one sided friendship where I am dropped like a hot potato and picked up whenever she fancies.
I always go running cos we have known each other all our lives.
I just feel like a fool.
sigh, you will all think I am being petty
This is my oldest friend, but is it worth it when she unwittingly makes me feel this way?
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twinklingfairy · 08/10/2009 11:54
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