My Mother in Law (no it?s not a Les Dawson joke...) tends to have no sense of order to her life, or routine, and often eats meals hours later than I would consider a ?normal time?; as does her ex husband, and DPs sister. This means they all tend to just turn up at our house whenever they are passing, and hang around because they like to see DS.
I?m from quite a working class background where tea was on the table at 5.30, and we all sat down together.
I?m getting sick of them all just turning up when I get home from work and hanging around. I?ve even, on occasion, made tea for myself and DS (DP often works late), and sat down and ate, but they just sit at the table and watch...
AIBU because I?m tired, working class and routine focussed, whereas they are all more free flowing, relaxed and just love to see DS (who is the only child of his generation in the family); or can I just tell them all in no uncertain terms (I?ve been hinting for a year) to bugger off and leave me to my family time after 6pm??
(DP kind of agrees with me, but he?s often not around to be irritated by it)
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AIBU?
To think that 6pm onwards is family time?
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Zil131 · 25/08/2009 12:20
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