I posted this in 'Relationships' earlier, but didn't get a lot of responses so I thought I would grit my teeth and post here!
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So we have spent the weekend with MIL who is not the easiest and can be very inconsistent. But it was actually pretty good, she was doing well (and therefore so was I, as I hadn't got cross all weekend!!)
This morning we went to her church. Dh and I stayed behind afterwards to talk to a few of his old friends, and MIL took the kids home to hers. When we got home we discovered she had walked to the corner shop 5 minutes away with our ds(7) and left the girls at her house (9 and 5). When we arrived our daughters were in the house alone with food on the cooker top and in the oven.
To aggravate it, dd2 has a problem with her hip which means that despite the fact she is as mobile as the next child, she is not allowed to hop, jump, skip, run etc. When I got in both girls were bouncing on the sofa. This activity for dd2 could lead to a break, a dislocation or an operation later in the year to repair damaged bone. She tries very hard to live by her restrictive rules, but sometimes forgets, especially when unsupervised. I thought MIL might have understood this - she used to be a nursery teacher for children with special needs, mainly mobility/physical!
It was not even as if (though it would not have made any difference about how wrong I think it is) it was for something essential, it was for icecream.
I'm . Dh agrees that it should be him to speak to her about it. We have had no time to do it today as just as we realised what had happened his brother and family arrived and then not long after lunch we had to leave to come home (booked on a ferry).
Am I right to be shocked or am I over-reacting?
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To expect my MIL not to leave my under-10s home alone??
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weegiemum · 10/08/2009 01:38
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