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To wish my cats would stop having sex on my new bedspread?

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hobbgoblin Wed 29-Jul-09 00:25:28

I wouldn't mind but one is a cat and one is a kitten so the cat has no chance of what he is aiming for which means, I think (but try not to) that my spread will be soiled.

DidEinsteinsMum Wed 29-Jul-09 00:33:54

does it wash? YANBU. i suppose you could consider it christened grin[gross]

raffyandted Wed 29-Jul-09 01:09:01

Yuk! I would be thinking about getting the older cat neutered if i were you. Think of all those unwanted kittens crawling around on your lovely bedspread when the girl kitten (I assume it's a girl?) becomes old enough to get pregnant. She might even choose to give birth on it grin

Morloth Wed 29-Jul-09 09:37:32

Yuck, get them snipped ASAP. And close the door in the meantime.

Picante Wed 29-Jul-09 09:38:36

Why isn't he neutered?

pointydog Wed 29-Jul-09 09:45:30

you've got an unneutered tom in the house?

I'd get him done

SoupDragon Wed 29-Jul-09 09:46:31

TBH, if you have an unneutered tom in the house it's really your own fault.

Lifeinagoldfishbowl Wed 29-Jul-09 09:47:40

Agree -

Callisto Wed 29-Jul-09 10:07:22

Female cats can have their first heat as early as 4 months old. Your 'kitten' will be having her own kittens in a couple of months - your tom is probably shagging her because she is on heat. Dust off your sense of responsibility and get them both neutered asap.

ginormoboobs Wed 29-Jul-09 10:58:58

YABU
Neuter your cat.
Your kitten may be in heat BTW. When I was a teenager my friend's cat managed to get pregnant at 4 months She was supposed to be getting spayed but they hadn't taken her yet.

SecretNinjaChipmunk Wed 29-Jul-09 14:14:21

close the bedroom door so they can't get in.

Blondeshavemorefun Wed 29-Jul-09 18:37:53

shut the door then hmm

slowreadingprogress Wed 29-Jul-09 19:31:04

agree with 'get cat neutered'

problem solved

FabBakerGirlIsBack Wed 29-Jul-09 19:32:23

Yep, you have to shut the door, book the cat in, problem solved.

TheProfiteroleThief Wed 29-Jul-09 19:33:14

You could get them both purity promise rings

differentID Wed 29-Jul-09 19:33:28

get them done!

MrsSchadenfreude Wed 29-Jul-09 19:38:19

"Purrity" promise rings, no?

And the bedspread kittened, rather than christened? grin

TheProfiteroleThief Wed 29-Jul-09 19:39:36

Oh I like that, 'purrity'. v good

nickytwotimes Wed 29-Jul-09 19:39:58

Yuck!
Get it's balls off pronto.
Filthy thing!

lovechoc Wed 29-Jul-09 19:45:02

ugh, yuck, cats in general are bad, but cats doing it on your bed, that's just nauseating.

DidEinsteinsMum Wed 29-Jul-09 23:52:08

MrsSchadenfreude grin

msled Wed 29-Jul-09 23:54:28

why on earth is that cat not neutered?

NoReturnsPlease Wed 29-Jul-09 23:57:58

If I get my boy cat neutered, will his charactor change?

Never had a cat before but I like him how he is

P.S he's not shagging anyone UNDER MY ROOF grin

zazen Thu 30-Jul-09 00:04:31

They don't change if they're old enough to have ingratiated habits noReturns- my SIL's neutered tom cat used to shag her teddy - the teddy had a tinkly bell on a ribbon round its neck and it could be heard! [totally gross]

You are responsible for the kitten who could very well be fertile right now. The poor little thing.

Get them both done as soon as you possibly can.

And congrats HG - was following your story and am delighted for you smile

msled Thu 30-Jul-09 08:32:35

It's cruel to leave a tom unneutered. They get into awful fights, and also prey on female cats (feline sex is painful and violent) and sire unwanted kittens. He will hurt your kitten and make her pregnant. Uneutered cats are more prone to disease.
Neutered toms tend to be cuddlier and less likely to stray.

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