Have name changed through fear of the Mumsnet jury on this one - I know this can be a pretty heated topic. I suspect this issue must have been previously discussed, but I can't find a thread among the many discussions of children at weddings.
DP and I are getting married next year. The reception is being held in a marquee in a field on a cliff (this is safer than it sounds - it is fenced but is still not particlarly child-friendly).
We don't (yet) have our own children. Inviting all the children of the people we plan to invite bumps our numbers up by about 30 (from 120).
The venue is not really practical to hire childminders/nannies and have them look after the children - there isn't a separate space for them and one apparently can't be created without vast expense (we would have to go up a marquee size to create the extra room). Plus, I think it's a lot of responsibility for the nannies to have to look after 30 children by a cliff face and think I would still worry.
I am very worried about mixing together 120 of our friends and family, a load of booze, darkness, 30 children and a sheer drop off a cliff with a fence they could climb over/under. I appreciate that their parents will be careful but accidents can happen so quickly.
I would prefer to not invite any children (other than small babies, obviously) to avoid spending my wedding worrying about accidents. DP would like to invite his 3 nephews (I am slightly concerned about this as, while lovely, they are not the best behaved and seem quite likely contendors for fence climbing antics, but he is adament).
Is there any way to invite 3 children without causing total offence to the parents of the 27 who are not invited? AIBU in even considering this? Thoughts appreciated.
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WeddingNameChanger · 14/07/2009 12:16
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