I hate projects with a fecking passion.
Every time I need to force her to take some sort of interest.
I do hours of researching for her and with her, with huge amounts of enthusiasm and encouragemment.
I take her on trips to the library.
I take her to relevent places (Museums, ,mountains, etc)
I buy her equipment.
I buy her books and read them to her.
I help her plan
I remind her to do bits of work
Then it comes up to the week before the fecking masterpiece has to be handed in.
DD gets more and more upset, anxious, frustrated.
She demands more help.
She throws things aound.
She rips up work because it isn't good enough.
She shouts
She swears
She expects me to start all over again and do all the work for her.
She pushes me until I loose my temper then twists it all around to make me feel bad about not helping her enough.
She has now been shouting, crying, swearing and screaming at me for 2 hours.
I have my own work I need to be doing. I don't care about what greek buildings were like.
I am not a builder nor an engineer.
I don't know how to fix one piece of cardboard onto another.
I can not do it. Every fecking time this happens and i swear next time i won't be doing it again.
every time i tell her i can't help her because she has to do some work for herself.
I am considering copying ths into an email to the fecking school.
This is why I do not educate her at home.
I am not a good teacher. I don't want to be a teacher. I send her to school to do this stuff because I don't like it and nor does she..
It is not good for family life or our relationship.
I have an hour before I have to go to work and have spent the whole sodding morning coaxing her along and fending off brewing arguments and now it has all exploded. Once again our limited time together as a family has been spoilt.
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To refuse to do any more of DDs feckng project for her.
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EccentricaGallumbits · 12/07/2009 11:23
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