This is not a wind up either ...
I have just totally had enough!
I cant go into all the details, but the inlaws are pretty dreadful, infact no - they are awful.
Lets just say, it all started when I was pg with DS. Because I had miscarried before, when we told them I was pg again - their reply was "Well, were not getting our hopes up again this time, because you will probably miscarry again"
TBH, I could cope with having awful inlaws, as I know that there are worse.
But what I cant cope with is DH, always siding with them. They are always right in his eyes. I just cannot cope with it anymore. I feel like I am the worst mother in the world, as the IL's always find something to pick me up on and DH always agrees. It is driving me insane.
I have explained numerous times to DH, how I feel and it just ends up with him still siding with his parents.
The thing is, other than this weird relationship with his parents (he phones them everyday and visits every other day)and the way he always sides with them and makes me feel like crap - My DH, is indeed a Darling. He is a fantastic father too.
But, I seriously cannot go on like this. I hoped he would change, or maybe I would learn to live with it, but 10 years later, he is worse than ever and I just cannot continue like this.
AIBU?
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- to be SERIOUSLY thinking of splitting with DH because of his parents?
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cheekster · 08/06/2009 00:54
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