Sorry this is a long one
My cousin and her husband work in the City and make loads of money. She knows very well that while DH and I make decent money, there is no way this will stretch to expensive holidays abroad every other weekend, particularly as we have a DD.
But despite this she constantly invites us to join them on holidays where we are expected to pay through the nose for very expensive hotels, restaurants etc. We did go on holiday with them once (before DD) and were broke for months afterwards. So now, we just say, sorry can't go etc.
However, I have recently found out that she has been complaining about us to one of our other relatives, saying how mean we are and what spoilsports we are, and how we don't care about them, and how 'smug' we have become after having DD etc. Plus, she always rubs her holidays in my face, putting pics up with comments like 'M don't you wish you were here' etc. She knows very well that we just can't afford the lifestyle, yet takes pleasure in rubbing our noses in it.
DH thinks I should just ignore it, but its been getting on my nerves. I can't just cut ties with her as she's family, and if I did, the rest of our family would see me as a troublemaker. She also expects to come up to see us whenever she pleases, usually with no notice, and then expects to be waited on head and foot!
I just don't know what to do and am at my wit's ends. Why is she doing this to me?
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to be really unhappy that rich cousin constantly invites us on holidays that we cannot afford?
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MichKit · 01/06/2009 18:01
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