I know it is bad form to start a thread about a thread, but i am really angry and hurt.
I posted because i am worried about my DP. We have financial problems and it is taking its toll. I don't work but am now looking for a job. All i get is GET A JOB and someone actually had the audacity to say to me that i should basically send my DD to nursery because she would be better off there than stuck at home with a mother who has depression. WTF???
YES, i know i need to get a job, but that doesn't stop my DP from being dangerously stressed this week, it doesn't help NOW does it. That was not what that thread was supposed to be about, i wanted to know what i can do, in what i predict are going to be a difficult few weeks. I am worried about my DP and yes, i know it is all my fault but to tell me i am a bad mother - i am devestated.
I really felt i had turned a corner and starting to look for a job was one of the positive steps i have made. But hey, it just seems that maybe i am toxic to my family and maybe, as some posters apparently think, they would be better off without me.
Time for me to go i think.
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To be able to post a thread looking for support and not be accused of being a bad mother and generally a lazy and bad person.
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lucyellensmum1 · 03/10/2008 10:36
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