Dp thinks I am so I want your opinions....
Dp's works do falls the same week as my 21st birthday and as he works at cener parcs we decided to book a villa for the weekend and ask mil if she will come up for the weekend to look after dc's whilst we are at his works party and then we can have a nice weekend break with the dc's for my birthday.
Fil said he was working so he would just come up for the last day and sil has a villa booked for her 21st in feb with her friends so we didn't invite her partly because of this and partly because last time we went away with her and fil they ruined the holiday and I said I really didn't want to go away with them again.
When we went to mil at the weekend and she said that its still fine and that we could book it, then fil who is sat with us said oh I get my bouns paid in soon I will pay for the weekend we said oh no you don't need to do that but he insisted that he did then after we had it all booked we left.
We went over last night and fil said which nioght is your party dp told him friday and he said oh well I don't think I will work then and I will come for the whole weekend which is exactly what I didn't want because he spoilt the last holiday we had and I don't want him doing the same this time, but I was ok and just accepted that he was going to come and said to dp that we will just have to do things on our own and not do everything with him.
Now this is thebit that has really pissed me off, sil has decided that she is coming and has invited her friend who non of us have met and told her that she can share the twin room with her. This means ds hasn't got a bed now because it is 2 double 1 twin room mil and fil in the double me dp and dd in the other double and ds in the twin, I said no your friend can't come there isn't enough space and she said well my dad paid for the weekend and he said she can come so you will have to take ds's ready bed! I don't want to share a villa with someone I have never met and I didn't want sil to come in the first place thats why she wasn't invited dp thinks its ok and that I am over reacting but I just feel that we were ment to be having a weekend away with the dc's for my birthday and now its like its the il's holiday and we are the guests. It making me want to not go.
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To think that DP should say somthing to his sister and dad
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bogie · 19/09/2008 09:54
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