I have one lovely DS. He will be one a week on Saturday. He is a bit prone to becoming overwhelmed by too many people/too much shrieking. So I have bought him:
- One 'Spot's birthday' book, which he will love.
- One candle in the shape of a 1 for his cake (which I am making)
- a bubble-blowing kit, again, which he will love.
We're having a small party with just relatives/close friends.
However, on speaking to my Mum/MIL about this, they seemed to think this was dead cruel. 'BUT it's his BIRTHDAY!!!' they cried.
Since then, I have had to take delivery of (and I kid you not):
- a box full of those foil helium balloons with 'I am one' plus helium container
- TWO massive cardboard boxes which I assume are horrible plastic monstrosities of some description but which say 'Don't Open until 20th September!!!'
- a load of 'I am One' matching napkins, plates, cups and hats (oh yes).
- a box full of party poppers/blowy things which make a noise and unfurl
PLUS they've both decided to invite what feels like most of our neighbourhood.
Am I being a sad old loser in thinking that this just too overwhelming for him? I can just imagine his wee sad face in the photos, wearing an 'I am One' hat and having a popper popped in his face...
Be gentle. Am feeling well grumpy about this.