DH works in a large shop as floor staff but for the past few weeks he has been reassigned to working in the warehouse on the cardboard bailer.
He resents this as he likes to be on the shop floor working among and chatting to his colleagues as opposed to being "stuck in the warehouse by myself" - his words.
Every day he comes home he's complaining about it, whenever he's getting ready for work he's complaining about it. I'm worried that his obvious resentment will manifest in him having a bad attitude at work and facing disciplinary/losing the job. He has already said he and the manager do not get along and he has lost two jobs in the past ten years.
It is highly likely he is on the autism spectrum and I'm as sure as I can possibly be in the absence of a formal diagnosis, so this complicates things somewhat.
That being said, he's not at work to socialise or choose what tasks he has but to do a job and earn money to contribute to the mortgage.
AIBU to think he's being childish and needs to just suck it up?
I try to be sensitive to the ASD factors but I find I'm consistently concerned about him losing his job which would have a knock on effect.
We're not professionals, neither of us earn a great deal of money so the two incomes are absolutely imperative.
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Boogienight · 11/07/2020 09:15
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