AIBU to wonder why certain family members of mine cannot seem to manage to send cards on time. To be honest it’s my dh’s family not mine, my family are always on time with cards. I know it’s nothing major in the grand scheme of thing but it does wind me up. My eldest dc is 16 and my SiL has never given him a card on time and the same with my dd who’s 12. She always says she has no money but every year I tell her she does not need to put a penny in their cards and never feel like I expect this as I don’t and neither do my kids. She always says she’ll call round with their cards but this year she brought my dd’s card when she super fly managed to call round (a day late) with my ds’s card. Their birthdays are 3 months apart! She’s the same at Christmas to. I always make sure her 3 kids get Christmas cards and also their birthday cards on time yet SiL always makes excuses. You can by a card for 50p these days. Is it just that she can’t be arsed do you think? My dh’s parents were always really good getting our kids cards and for mine and dh’s birthday. But this year I didn’t even get one, my ds’s was late and it was my dh’s birthday over a week ago and he hasn’t had a card either. I know it’s only a card but to me a card says I’m thinking of you on your birthday or just happy bloody Christmas etc. I’d rather have a card on time with no money in (for my kids) than a card 2/3 months late with money in, as obviously the cards won’t even be put up. Like I said my family always manage to give them on time so it’s a bit annoying. Especially since my in-laws always moan that we didn’t get them a card for their wedding anniversary but I don’t do anniversaries and don’t even get a card for my parents. Oh and they always causally remind me not to forget one of our nieces birthdays, which is infuriating as their birthdays are etched into my memory and I have never forgot to get them a card and present. Like I said compared to current situation I know i might come across as being petty but I’m sick of always being the one who makes the effort when other people don’t.
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What’s the point in sending someone a birthday card late
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Samsen · 22/06/2020 16:52
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