AIBU to have just had a right go at my two adult sons?
Sat here in tears- I had a thyroidectomy three days ago, stayed in hospital overnight and under strict instructions to do nothing for two weeks other than move about regularly to avoid DVT.
DH was going to take a few days off this week to look after me but I told him not to as our 18 and 21 year old sons are around this week to help out, and I'm not bedridden. I am spending a fair amount of time in bed though as I feel pretty horrendous.
Well, the two boys have been spectacularly unhelpful. It has been spelled out to them that I have had major surgery and could they help out, which they both happily agreed to, unfortunately they haven't actually done anything.
One of them managed to make me a cup of tea and a bacon sandwich yesterday (only after I asked), and after a bit of nagging the other one did 5 minutes of hoovering and washing up.
Today, they seem to have completely forgotten about me altogether, no offers of tea, the eldest made himself eggs on toast, no thought of offering me anything. He did manage to let the dogs escape upstairs to leap all over me, so I had to round them up.
I asked the younger one to take the dogs out yesterday, which he declined as he has a sore foot.
Today I asked the elder one to please take the dogs out, and was met with 'No, I'm going to the gym'
Well that was the last straw. I burst into tears and ranted and raved at them, calling them selfish bastards who never think of anyone but themselves. I told them in no uncertain terms what i expect done today and told them to sort it out amongst themselves. I also sent the eldest a passive aggressive text wondering if he enjoyed his breakfast. They are both repentant now and getting on with some jobs.
I feel a bit childish now. AIBU to have lost my rag with them?
By the way I have tried to bring them up to be caring, helpful individuals, it just doesn't seem to have worked very well.
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InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 25/02/2020 11:10
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