I met colleague 6 years ago, she was internet dating back then and constantly coming to work with hilarious stories of these disastrous dates. It was funny to be fair and she told the stories so well and found it as funny as the rest of us did.
I moved jobs and lost contact but then, 3 years later we ended up working together again. She was still dating and still full of hilarious stories about various men she’d met. We became friends and she would ring me to update me on various funny situations. But then it all got a bit not quite right. The men she was dating were obvious losers from the start but worse than that, a lot of them seemed dangerous, tales of mad outbursts, stalking, violence, liars ... I started telling her she should be careful but she continued telling stories as though she could only see the funny side. One time she decided to go on a camping trip with a man she hadn’t even met yet, the trip would be the first meeting. I warned her against it but she went anyway. Again, came back with ridiculous stories ...
But then it got really stupid. She started dating a married man ... from the start there were stories of him hurling racist abuse out of his car window, she found out he had a previous history of beating up his wife and assaulting a police officer ... I told her it wasn’t funny anymore and it was getting dangerous. Within a month he left his wife, moved in with her and her teenage daughter (??!!) and soon afterwards he beat her up, she ended up being arrested for assault (as he was sober, she was drunk, she hit him with a glass and cut his head, police believed his version as she was hammered). She was covered in cuts and bruises whilst her daughter sat screaming at the bottom of the stairs. He left that night and she didn’t see him again. So I told her it had to stop now, it wasn’t funny anymore.
Then the latest one is a bloke who appears to be some kind of gangster, sells cocaine and controls her every move. She rang me up saying she was locked in the house and it was hilarious.
I can’t listen to it anymore. It’s not funny, she won’t take advice and I spend too much time wondering if she’ll be found dead the next morning.
AIBU to break off the friendship completely?
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To tell friend that I’m not interested in her stories anymore?
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HouseCoatAndPopSocks · 09/11/2019 15:04
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