Please be gentle with me as I'm a sensitive flower :) Excuse the rambling post.
I made a thread about another issue with this bloke on the Women's Rights board.
He's one of my best friends, so I want to explain to him why I like something (he's a therapist, so thinks there's some deep reason why I like it.) The nearest I've come so far is by saying I like Mumsnet because I'm a naturally trusting and not particularly assertive person, and the boards help me potentially spot abusive men if I were to come across one, so it's a way of keeping myself safe.
Plus as a feminist I enjoy/value reading about women's experience.
I don't think it necessarily is that though, I think I also like to read about people's experiences- I find it emotionally engaging.
So, he gets annoyed when he asks what's happening in my online life (I have a disability, so spend a lot of time online) and I say what women have been experiencing that I've read about here.
He says 'they should rename that site the man-hating site' and 'you should go on a site about how men are lovely, too' and 'don't they ever write about nice stuff their partners have done?'
I suppose part of it has the same appeal as a 'misery memoir' of people experiencing and hopefully escaping abusive situations. As a feminist that's nice to see, too.
He says that as a therapist he rarely comes across a female client who's come for advice about her spouse's behaviour or how to leave (though I suppose in that position most women would choose a female therapist.)
So, what do we get out of Relationships board in particular as readers/commentators? And from AIBUs about partners? I know it doesn't matter and I don't have to justify myself, but I'm interested in my own possible motivation.
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Interestedwoman · 26/10/2019 10:56
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