So my SIL relies heavily on dh and I to assist with child care of her toddler. We do not mind, we both adore our niece. But a rumour had been floating around the family the last few weeks she is pregnant which she has denied...however, my sil has been in and out of detox the last few years as she is an addict, she claims she is clean currently however we are seeing a decline in her and the way she behaves which is the giveaway. Anyway today it has been confirmed she is pregnant and has know all along...that is not what I'm mad about (though I'm not pleased about her lying to my face) I'm mad I can almost say with 95% certainty she is using again.. the remaining 5% would he catching her doing it again.. if she is using while pregnant I dont know what to do for the best. She was caught using once while pregnant with our niece. luckily the hospital checked the baby when she was born and she was absolutely fine but I'm really stuck at what to do now. Do I report her to social services ? Would they take her daughter away from her, would they let dh and I look after her if they did. They baby is always taken to all her appointments and is reaching all her targets for her age and reaching some earlier than expected. she is a delightful sil house is always clean and tidy but if she is using again and we've established she is pregnant where so I go from here what should i do.
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