I had a massive argument with DH today about the messy 'trail' he leaves wherever he goes.
If he's had a beer he doesn't throw the bottle away (into recycling or dustbin) same with bottle of wine. If he's had a meal he'll just leave his plate on the side of the sink with food scraps still on it, he doesn't bother scraping them into the dustbin. If he's with DS in the kitchen and DS empties out a cupboard of pots and pans DH will just leave them all lying on the floor and leave the room.
I feel like a real slave at the weekend when I'm picking up after not 2 kids but 3 including DH. I'm a SAHM so I do most if not all of the housework during the week and I don't mind that as I see that as part of my 'job'. But at the weekend I do expect DH to do his little bit such as dealing with the above type of thing. His argument is that he gets up early with the kids at the weekend so I can have a lie in which I definately need as I'm usually up at around 5.30am every day during the week.
He also says that because he has a lot of stress during the week having started a new job he can't do any more than he already does at the weekend, ie getting up early, and it's up to me to do everything else.
That's why I got really angry as being at home all day with 2 under 5yo's is pretty stressful and I'm not even expecting him to do anything like cook a meal or anything at the weekend, just to clean up after himself as I already have 2 kids to pick up after and he said he just couldn't do it.
I feel like an unpaid slave and am really p**d off with him. But at the same time I don't know if I'm just tired and tetchy or am I justified?
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oneplusone · 15/07/2007 20:50
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