Divorced, kids with exH EOW. Today, kids were with dad and had a great day celebrating Mother's Day - focussed on ex's mum (grandma). This was all hosted at ex brother in laws house with SIL hosting (cooking, arranging etc) who follows family lines (abusive ex, perfect husband to outside world). Today I got son & daughter returned to me at 5pm as normal hoping for something -flowers maybe? I got a bunch of fake tulips from the pound shop (says my daughter) and a card that has double exposure .. the print is not good enough to sell in a decent shop so has come from somewhere cheap.
My AIBU? I've always made sure the children do something thoughtful on Father's Day, should I not bother in future as I'm clearly no longer part of ex's family? I have no family of my own (except for kids) btw.
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Should I bother with Father's Day?
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OrnithCheeseatron · 31/03/2019 23:03
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