I have a gorgeous 11month old baby girl whose got a lovely, sweet nature and very placid. However she's quite a big girl (though not overweight and perfectly in proportion, genetically from dad's side). Also she has still to grow much hair and due to having some excess fluid around her brain her forehead and head circumference is a bit larger than average which could delay her crawling/ walking though she will definitely get there and is already showing strong signs of wanting to move (it's nothing serious, had her scanned). The one thing I'm getting quite sensitive about though is i very frequently get comments from other mums/ grandmas at playgroups etc. saying how large she is, asking her weight, calling her chunky or a bruiser and also isn't she crawling yet and is she alright developmentally? Often these remarks are from complete strangers who I'm sure wouldn't like me commenting on their own children. It's started putting me off going to groups a bit though I don't want her to miss out. Once she starts moving properly am sure she'll start to lose some of her chubbiness but it does upset me that people seem to be so insensitive and sometimes even quite rude. I'd never dream of making any personal comments about another woman's baby. If anyone has any ideas or words of support would be most grateful.
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