DH family are overseas, so we see them a couple of times a year when we stay at each other's houses for a couple of weeks at a time. My 2 dds are no angels, but they are generally suitably shocked and uncomfortable at hearing bad words. DH are I are not swearers in general, so they don't hear bad language at home (obviously they do at school, but not at home).
The nephew has been getting progressively worse with his language last few times we've seen them. SIL commented when we spoke recently that he's now got significantly worse due to the language of his friends. They don't like it - they also don't swear at home so I don't blame them for his language. But they are coming to stay shortly and I know how bad it's been in the past when he's done it to be shocking. If she felt the need to say that he's worse now, I'm dreading it a bit. He's 9. Any ideas of how I can take some control of this while they're staying at our house? It's not my place to parent him - and SIL & BIL don't like it either so they're doing what they can, which is difficult when he does it for the reaction a lot of the time. Do I just ignore it and tell dds to ignore it? Or say something to him about language that is unacceptable in our house? Or am I over-reacting and it's no different to playground language and I should get over myself!?
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Thisismynewname123 · 06/03/2019 10:15
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