I am at the end of my tether! Mil sees ds around 3/4 times a week and every time she comes over turns up with armfuls of toys. If she finds out ds shows even a mild interest in a certain character or tv show she buys everything under the sun to do with that. Then a few weeks later ds moves onto something else and the cycle starts again! Leaving the brand new toys barely played with. She must be spending around £60/£80/£100 per week on him. Meanwhile our house is a tip and every day is Christmas Day for our ds. DH and I have talked to her in the past and the spending tapers off but then gradually she goes back to her spendy ways! On the flip side, she helps out with ds, takes him to after school activities and helps occasionally with childcare. Of course she is the favourite grandparent now which causes friction from my side of the family as they both can’t afford and don’t believe in spoiling a child. So, should I just leave her be as ds adores her and she does help us as a family or how would I broach the subject in a tactful yet firm way? DH isn’t at all bothered and won’t let me talk to her myself for fear of “upsetting” her. Help!
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To ask mil to stop buying so many toys
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user1498912461 · 03/03/2019 17:10
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