I used to hate the term Disney Dad, but I'm starting to realise what that is.
Separated from ex DP a week or so ago. We have a tiny baby. Half the reason left him was because he hardly helped with DS.
He never picked him out an outfit. He never bought him clothes. Never bathed him. Occasionally changed a nappy. Wouldn't soothe him when he was crying and depended on me to do it. I tried and tried to get him to parent properly but I failed. He's also not very nice to me. I made the extremely hard and gut wrenching decision to leave.
Now, I know he's going to live the rest of his life being a Disney Dad.
I'll do all of the disciplining, arranging of activities, educating, nurturing, and he just gives me £30 a week.
Even when he's has DS the past week and I've been there, he's held him and spent more time glued to the tv. As soon as he cries or gets grisly it's my job to soothe him.
AIBU to (regardless of how much I don't regret my son) be pissed off that I picked someone so lazy to be my son's dad?
I've been a single mum for a week, my whole world has flipped upside down and he is quite happy, getting to play with his son and hand him back when it gets tough.
Anyone else found the same?
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loloremos · 21/02/2019 19:36
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