My brother left my sister-in-law and two children for another woman and within 18 months had died.
It was just devastating.
I tried to maintain a relationship with my sister-in-law with whom I had been close but she just withdrew we see her only occasionally now as her son is in the same club.
I see my other brother and get on well but he tends to leave arrangements to his wife. By sheer coincidence I bumped into him at a leisure centre thing and we went for coffee.
He refuses to see my sister-in-law and has not invited our niece to his daughter’s party as it upsets him ... ok I get that but then he said he feels that to have a relationship with our sister-in-law is a betrayal of our brother because he left her.
He and his wife do however have an ongoing relationship with the other woman.
Who they have a relationship with is obviously none of my business but am I unreasonable to be so upset? I am as bad this week as when he died.
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TerracottaDream · 21/02/2019 13:51
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