I have 2 sons 7 & 10. Unfortunately my ex wife currently has them for 75% of the time and there are welfare issues which I am having to go to court to address. In a nutshell one at least is medically classed as "underweight" and they routinely stay up to midnight during the school week turning them into zombies . The youngest one nearly fell asleep in school recently (again)and when with Mum they just never seem to go out of the house. Therefore they are 2 very lethargic boys and the school are now supporting me with social services etc etc as the mother will not communicate with the school.
Anyway my partner of 4 years has 2 daughters aged 7 & 11 and they are the polar opposite. They are very well brought up by my partner and her ex. They are fit as can be and bursting with energy.
However when we all get together and go on a walk around the park my partner and her 2 girls routinely just bomb ahead at their usual speed leaving us usually miles behind as I tried to encourage my 2.
I asked my partner on Sunday at the start of a 2 mile walk..." can you guys not wait for us or walk with us for a change?"
To which I got the reply that "we are normal" which made me feel like its implied my lot aren't!!!! It caused a big argument as we go as fast as we can but my 2 sons are just not in the same league as her 2.
My partner says their is nothing she can do about it and that's the way it is as she cant ask her 2 to slow down just for us.
I though the point of walking was to do it together but it just turns into 2 groups so whats the point? We can even talk along the way.
I know this probably sounds bloody stupid but AIBU to ask her to stick with us? Its not like we walk together every day it might just be once every 2 weeks we manage to all get together. She goes out walking all the time with her girls and their dog so they are used to it and even suggested we could speed up but its not as simple as that.
I feel very protective of my 2 as I know what they go through and I explained this to my partner. Im now feeling confused for even bringing it up.
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NormalBloke · 12/12/2018 13:56
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