Hi,
I really need advice here. About 3 years ago my brother stole my laptop and sold it for 9 pills for a party. He recently admitted it to me (about a year ago) and promised to replace it. At the time he was earning £250 a week and living rent free, to the extent that my parents would provide his food. He spent all his money on beer and drugs. He did not replace it.
Every time I see him I'm already angry to begin with, because he has not yet replaced it and still smokes marijuana around me (I'm 8 months pregnant) so I have to either make a scene and be called ridiculous by my parents- we only ever see each other when I visit my mum or dad- and honestly I'm about at the end of my tether. I want my laptop replaced, but my parents both think I'm being unreasonable and causing a rift. It's not even about the laptop. It's the principle. Everyone just forgives him everything and even now if he steals something, no matter how small, they expect me to accept that that's his life.
I'm at a point now where I don't want him around my baby when she arrives because he has no respect for me whatsoever and I don't want that role model in her life, and I don't think I'm unreasonable to ask that he replaces what he stole and stops doing drugs around me.
AIBU and an "ingrate" as my dad says, or should he make efforts to make up for his past and change his future?
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AIBU?
To expect my brother to replace what he stole before we can move on?
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CSISaraSidle · 21/07/2018 01:56
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