I'm expecting dc2 very soon, planned c section because of horrific 1st birth.
Safe say, I'm shitting it! I'm getting fed up of the constant guilt tripping already because I mentioned that I just want a few days, maybe a week or so just to recover and bond with baby/try to establish breastfeeding.
I've said I might feel great and be happy for people to come earlier than expected but also not to expect anything in the first week. MIL has taken this very badly, which is making me feel like shit.
A c section, although a common procedure is still major abdominal surgery, why is it that because a newborn is involved you're expected to play hostess and have everyone bombard you?! No one would demand to see you if it weren't for the fact of newborn cuddles!
I know people mean well and are excited to welcome our baby but it's really stressing me out.
AIBU to not tell them the date? I'm feeling so pressured already.
Or do I just tell them all the date and then my phone off/lock my doors
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AIBU?
To not want to tell anyone the date?!
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stressingaboutbirth · 23/06/2018 09:47
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