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LuckySantangelo Fri 25-May-18 20:59:38

Dh says to me tonight, in just general convo about food ' the woman who serves my dinner is so rude, I pointed out the egg I wanted, and she said, get your fingers out, so I said, you weren't saying that last night'

I'm like shock he thinks I'm bu coz it's' banter '

DarkRosaleen Fri 25-May-18 21:05:34

Nah, bantz is bantz, innit?

Bravouniformmike Fri 25-May-18 21:05:37

Ew

ScreamingValenta Fri 25-May-18 21:06:38

confused

HeedMove Fri 25-May-18 21:07:02

Thats fucking immature and disgusting id not be surprised if she put a complaint in about him.

arethereanyleftatall Fri 25-May-18 21:07:24

Ltb

ConciseandNice Fri 25-May-18 21:07:48

Gross. LTB.

Sparklingbrook Fri 25-May-18 21:07:56

Huh?

Chickychoccyegg Fri 25-May-18 21:07:59

Gross!!

LoveInTokyo Fri 25-May-18 21:08:46

The fuck? Your husband sounds like a creep.

Butterymuffin Fri 25-May-18 21:09:20

It'll be hilarious when she complains about sexual harassment, tell him.

BadPolicy Fri 25-May-18 21:09:48

That's actually disgusting. I think I would loose all respect for DH if he said that.

SandAndSea Fri 25-May-18 21:10:11

I made a similar joke tonight to someone about group sex. It just came out but it was funny. It's all about context.

ArchchancellorsHat Fri 25-May-18 21:11:20

Yuck. No.

RideOn Fri 25-May-18 21:12:52

He probably thinks it is ok if she smiled at him, as if she is thinking "wow he is funny" but more likely "ffs why do I have to be spoken to like that when I am trying to serve your food"

yoyoyou Fri 25-May-18 21:14:23

What do you mean by 'woman who serves his dinner'? As in, at a restaurant?

kissthealderman Fri 25-May-18 21:16:27

Stab him for using the word banter.

MissMary0fSweden Fri 25-May-18 21:17:11

The really sad thing is he's still repeating it, like it was quip of the year or something hmm

Mrsmadevans Fri 25-May-18 21:19:16

Suggestive creep , how can you bear him OP?

TarragonChicken Fri 25-May-18 21:20:45

Yuck. No.

feathermucker Fri 25-May-18 21:22:13

He actually said that to someone who was serving him food?!

That's absolutely vile, unnecessary and way beyond banter. He deserves to be reported (if thats even possible)

RideOn Fri 25-May-18 21:22:34

Plus he really shouldn't be getting his fingers so close to the eggs!

KioraAdora Fri 25-May-18 21:25:23

Burny fingers.

It is half term

KioraAdora Fri 25-May-18 21:26:02

biscuit

bitmynailbrokemytooth Fri 25-May-18 21:26:03

Grim.

YANBU

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