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So my family recently went on holiday for DDs birthday. It was a domestic holiday and DD wanted to go there all year. The problem was that the DDs school is very strict on holidays during the school term. Especially during year 6 which DD is in. I told DH when we were planning the holiday that we should do it during half term or Easter break however DH complained that it was too expensive and would be nicer for DD to spend her birthday over there.
The last time we asked to take our older DC out of school for a holiday a few years back they told us that we weren’t allowed, so we had to change the date. DH decided to book the holiday on a Wednesday and leave on a Sunday. The problem was that DH thought instead of asking for DD to have a few days off for a holiday he would call in and say she is sick each day.
The older DCs who are now in high school had no problem when we asked if they could have 3 days off school. I personally believe that although the primary school is rather strict on attendance they would’ve most likely let DD take 3 days off as her attendance was 100% before the holiday.
DH told me that I could only tell close friends and family about the holiday and none of the families could post any pictures on social media . The holiday went well however it would’ve felt much better without the having to worry about DDs school. DD now also has to hide the fact that she went on holiday and pretend she sick. She unable to tell any of her friends until half term where she will lie and say she went on holiday then.
The feel the whole thing is a terrible lesson to teach our children. I feel like going into the school and confessing to the teacher about what happened as DH behaviour has been disgraceful and so has mine for going along with the whole thing. The DCs education is so important and calling in sick while on holiday just gives the DCs the wrong impression imo. The In-laws seem to think that DH did nothing wrong and it’s the schools fault for being so strict. I told my mother and she thinks I should go in and tell the school so that DD can learn a lesson about telling the truth. My head is all over the place. The worst part for me is year 6 is the most important year in primary school, DD will be taking her Sats in a few weeks. I have told DH I will never do anything like this in the future and if the school won’t allow us to have a day off for a holiday we will just have to do in during the school break.
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GoldingGold · 14/05/2018 09:37
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