My DS13 stays with his dad 2/3 nights per week. He has a key for our house to let himself in after school, but not yet for there, though it’s in the pipeline.
Twice this week, my DS has turned up at our house, to change clothes, collect stuff, and I’ve not known he’s coming. This is his Saturday for his dads and I wasn’t expecting to see him until dinner time tomorrow. This also happened early Wednesday morning.
I’ve started seeing someone in the last month or so and neither DS or my ex know this. It’s making me uncomfortable knowing DS could turn up at any moment and I’m with my BF. But this is his home.
So, how do I get round it without having to tell him and ex about the new guy yet?
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privateporcupine · 17/03/2018 17:40
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