Would really like an objective opinion on this as am so upset. Have DD who is nine months old. When I told family I was pregnant my sister went mad. As she is older than me she obviously thinks she should have a baby first. I have previously had a very good relationship with my mum and sister. However since having DD I feel completely let down by them.
Every time I visit I come home feeling so upset. They constantly imply that DD should be my sisters. My DD is most of the time quite a happy baby but for some reason my mum has to point out every time she show interest in my sister. Comments like oh she's loves """ and when she get older she will want to be with """ and not you. She even told my sister to hold her child at one point. I am protective over DD but I do not feel this way with any other aunts/ members of the family.
I have tried to tell them and it did calm down for awhile but today it went back to way it was. Even DH said he wasn't happy.
Am I justified in feeling so upset ? AIBU?
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newmum2018385 · 12/02/2018 19:22
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