My dh is a friendly guy almost too friendly and can come across as flirty at times. This is obviously magnified even more when he is drunk. The thing is ive mentioned a few times to him now that when we've gone out on couples nights and I'm talking to my friends or gone to get a drink I will some times see him dancing with other women. It's harmless I guess but it makes me feel uneasy at times as if he's like that when I'm there I'd dread to think what he's like when I'm not. My biggest worry is that he always gets leg less when he goes out with the lads. Whilst flirting etc is harmless fun and an ego boast I don't really appreciate it under my nose and wouldn't do it to him.
We went to a ball last night and there was a couple sat on our table who we didn't know. Towards the later part of the night I came back from the toilet and dh was dancing and spinning her around the dance floor. I didnt see where her dh was so not sure if he minded. I carried on talking to friends and tried to ignore it knowing they were just dancing but the alcohol didnt help my insecurities. I then went to go and get our coats as our taxi was due and dh shortly came running after me asking if I was alright. I hadn't made an issue but obviously he must of felt like he had upset me.
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AIBU?
It's probably a mixture of hormones and alcohol but if your partner danced with a stranger in front if you would it upset you ?
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Dickorydockwhatthe · 11/02/2018 23:02
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