My fiancée and I are trying to find a reasonable and fair way to handle our finances together. We have slightly different views on what is fair regarding the finances. How to split the expenses and how we split the ownership of our flat. Is anyone of us being unfair?
A bit about the financial background:
We bought a flat together in 2015 for £ 481 000.
Person A had £ 150 000 in equity
Person B had £ 85 000 in equity.
We borrowed £ 300 000, i.e £ 150 000 each.
The rest amount £ 54 000 was used to buy a car, furniture etc, as well as a vacation for Person A.
Person A earns £ 42 000 per year, not including capital income of £1 500- £5 000. Person A also gets regular money gifts from parents for personal use, about £1 000 to £3 000 per year.
Person B earns £ 56 000 per year, but has neither capital income nor gets help from parents.
The salary of Person B is going to increase due to the profession, whilst the salary of Person A will not.
Since buying the flat in 2015, Person B has contributed £ 25 000 more to the household than person A.
Person A is of the opinion that A should own more of the flat according to how much they had with them into the relationship, i.e according to the equity share. Furthermore, that all expenses should be split depending on the salary, i.e the one with the highest salary pays more than the one with lower income. However, capital income and the regular money gifts from parents should not be taken into account when defining income.
Person B is of the opinion that if A shall own more of the flat, then all expenses should be paid equally as well. An alternative is that A owns more than B in the beginning, and what B contributes more to the household goes into the flat so that in a few years they own the flat 50/50. After that expenses are split depending on salary. A slight different alternative is that Person B takes a larger share of the debt, so that they own the flat equally, and then can split the expenses depending on income. Person B also thinks capital income should be regarded as normal income when sharing the expenses.
What is most fair? What is the fairest way split the ownership of the flat, and the living expenses? Is A unreasonable, or is B unreasonable?
Thank you for reading
Chris
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Chris2202 · 05/02/2018 14:56
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