Many of you might recognise this back story so apologies.
Dh fell out with his dsis after the birth of our dd. His mum was trying to sort things out and got kind of desperate I supposed dragged me into it blamed me for the rift when the rest of the family acknowledged it was all Dh’s Sister.
Anyway his Mum lashed out at me a couple of times, ignored me on my wedding day etc but final straw was her ignoring our ds when he was seriously ill in hospital at that point I knew I could not be civil with her anymore so since then she’s seen the kids with Dh once a fortnight.
She’s asked a couple of times to Dh was the problem is but he’s not got into it with and she’s not contacted me. She addresses cards to the 3 of them not me and it feels like I’ve played into her hands I’m out of the picture for her essentially.
The wider family would only know her story as since Dh fell out with sis we cannot go to family parties as we were warned she wouldn’t be happy if we went.
I’ve just said to Dh the situation as it stands makes me feel resentful that it’s neber been tackled and his response was I’ve got to deal with it all. If my mum had treated my spouse and children the way she has I would have sorted this whole thing out instead it’s festered into another big mess.
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So apparently this is my problem now according to DH
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ManyFloralBlouses · 03/02/2018 18:07
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