Meh, I've seen her twice now and she just seems patronising in the way she comes across. If I tell her about something/how I do something (that I'm happy with), she always suggests alternatives/tells me how I should do something.
I would just change HV but friends and family have generally had the same experience with all of their HV.
I'm cautious of saying I don't want to see her anymore, because I had a history of psychosis in my earlier teens and this went against me in hospital.
In a nutshell, one particular consultant demanded I stay for 5 days at least after birth and when I self discharged, had it go against medical advice procedures and it was made clear to me Social Services will be in touch. This is all despite her saying she would allow formal discharge if I agreed to see a psychiatrist. I saw a psychiatrist, he quite literally found it funny he would go against my plans since I had been very well for years and showing no sign of being unwell.
She made me feel like a piece of crap in hospital, despite my perfect feeder and sleeper of a baby.
As not to drip-feed, I did express to my GP that I was feeling mildly paranoid mid pregnancy but this was resolved and those feelings went away almost as quickly as they came.
Social services never did contact me
We wrote a complaint officially to PALS and were told we would hear back mid January.
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SunSeaSalt · 19/01/2018 12:19
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