Met with a few friends for coffee last night and ended up discussing those videos doing the rounds on facebook of those paedophile hunters catching predators which is great.
However the discussion moved on to a documentary we watched ages ago about paedophiles who knew what they were but locked themselves away from society and did everything in their power not to offend.
Before i get flamed i was abused as a child so i know what its like to go through that.
IIRC there is somewhere in england possibly that is like therapy or something for people who have offended to try rehabilitate them,but nowhere for people who haven't and dont want to either.
I think that people with that kind of rewiring or chemical imbalance in their brain should in no circumstances be around children,ever. At the same time though i feel its counterintuitive to shut someone down or abuse or attack someone whos seeking help before doing anything.
I feel that it pushes them down underground where the likelihood is that theyll meet likeminded people and begin to normalise it and even encourage it.
There should be a safe space or spot where someone can go and get the correct therapy or even surgery or tablets to rupress sexual urges
Im not saying that we should accept because we cant and never should and they should not be able to to be around children or accepted into society with open arms. I just dont want what happened to me to happen to anyone and i think that people being so afraid of getting killed or whatever else will hide what they are until they cant hide it anymore.
Ive probably made a balls of explainging this properly but heyho.
Before flaming me for thinking im saying they should be accepted or it should be normalised im definitely not.
I just want to help and keep safe kids like i was.
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To think help should be given before it's too late?*trigger warning*
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