PILs have always struck me as grandparents that are interested in photos of them with their grandchildren to show their friends, but not the actual children themselves. Their grandchildren from me, that is. They see their daughters children 3-4 times per week and often babysit and have them overnight even though she's twice as far away as me. I split from their son in June; they last saw my DC in early May and haven't met their 3 month old grandchild despite being invited over. I get the odd text message asking how they are but it tends to evolve into berating me for leaving their (abusive) son.
I think they're saving my photos of the DC from FB and showing them off as if they're ones they've taken and it's making me furious. I'm totally alone with four DC and no support (their son isn't seeing them and I have no family even on the end of a phone) and not once have they asked how I'm coping or if I need help. Yet their daughter had a dental appointment yesterday and they had her kids during the appointment and then overnight so she could recover from a filling. A fucking filling!! I, on the other hand, was on the school run 12 hrs after giving birth because I had no one to help.
AIBU to remove them from FB and stop sending them updates, leaving them to get in touch if they're bothered? If I see another post of them baking with their other GC #loveourgrandchildrensomuch I think I may not be able to bite my tongue any longer.
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PatterPitter · 06/12/2017 13:09
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