Friends asked to visit us recently - no problem with that, good to have company. Friends aren’t financially stable - lots of debt, not good with money, few kids etc. Known for months they were coming to visit. Advised the day before the visit they were skint, not yet been paid etc I told them not to worry we’d do lots of free things with the kids, walks, etc so didn’t need a lot of money.
Now I’m happy to give anyone anything, what I begrudge is going out of my way to feed a family of 5, plus my own 5 for several days only for them to buy and drink several bottles of vodka, about 25 beers for themselves for the weekend and not even buy a pint of milk as a contribution? Yet happy to tell their kids to help themselves to our food cupboards, biscuits, crisps, fruit, drinks as and when they wanted it. I feel sorry for the kids as they don’t have many treats in their house like ours but still. AIBU?- I know it’s a bit petty but it makes me think I being taken the piss out of? Oh and they tell me when they are next coming to visit, not ask if it’s ok?!
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AIBU or do my ‘friends’ take the p*ss
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Jesi98 · 30/10/2017 21:31
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