New person here. Hi 👋🏻
Feel like I need some impartial input on my life. Maybe a kick up the arse, some sympathy, I'm not actually sure what really but I'm open to it all....
I recently, after a bit (a lot) of pressure from my Husband/Family, gave up a very well paid but hugely demanding/time consuming job. My kids are a bit older, both over 10, I've worked full time since they were both babies. Back then it was a necessity but laterally, I didn't need to do it, but I did.
I worked really hard in my career and was proud of what I'd achieved.
However, it got to the point our family life wasn't great, I was working super long hours, weekends, etc etc. If I needed time off though, I got it so I didn't really see the issue but it was causing problems.
My husband + immediate family basically pushed me into resigning.
I'm now at stay at home mum, but my kids are at school/have a good social life, my husband is now working all the hours under the sun as he is expanding his company {with some input and help from me} and I honestly don't know what to do with myself.
I miss my old life. And I feel guilty for that because everyone is now much happier apart from me....my husband doesn't want me to get another job, even though i have been offered a couple, I've turned them down.
I don't know how to feel about everything. I'm bored out my mind.
And I can't talk to anyone close because they think I'm being ridiculous. Even my own sister can't understand why I'm not happy!!!
Any words of advice Mumsnet?????
Am I being selfish?
Thanks!l
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bemore · 26/10/2017 18:14
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