Before I start I just want to say that I am seeing my health visitor next week to discuss my concerns.
So my beautiful son is 21 months old and he is an absolute joy and delight. He is so happy, is very sociable, very loving and very active. He has just learnt to jump with two feet off the ground, joins in the actions to songs, follows instructions well and will bring me his coat/shoes etc if I ask. Can also do inset puzzles I independently.
However, his speech is almost non-existent. He has about 10 words (if that) and uses mostly gesture and sounds to communicate what he wants. He does babble.
His little friends of the same age however are suddenly talking all the time, my friends are always sending videos of them and the new words they say and my heart breaks with every new clip. We are due to all meet up soon and I just now my boy is going to stand out a mile.
I'm a primary school teacher trained in early years and whilst I know that children develop at different rates I feel like I've massively failed my baby. I went back to work (part-time) when h4 was 6 months but he has so much interaction (from me on an afternoon), my sister who has him when I'm at work (she's a childminder), my dh... We do everything to encourage him and like I say his understanding is brilliant and he is very sociable. But I just feel like a big fat failure.
I'm not really sure why I'm posting apart from the fact that I've just had a good cry and needed to get it all out!
It doesn't help that I'm 7 months pregnant and feeling guilty that I'll be spending even less time one on one with him.
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Mammyloveswine · 20/10/2017 17:47
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